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WORD
OF ADVICE: Table of Contents
Introduction - forget money, forget
fame, just cut to the chase and get the girls:).
Reference: Common abbreviations and acronyms - all acronyms used in the guide explained. Links and prominent personalities on the net / ASF - the people who have contributed the most to this guide. Estonian translations - if you want to seduce some Estonian girls:) General rules: The 3 seconds rule - the most important rule you'll ever learn, say bye-bye to hesitation. Look and feel your best - all the time! Be the Alpha/Dominant male - be in charge of your surroundings. Including the girls:) Do my looks matter? - yes they do, but not nearly as much as you think. Nice guys vs jerks - the key difference between the two explained. Good traits to have - or develop, to be a successful player. It all comes down to satisfaction - read why you actually have the upper hand with the most beautiful of women. Women want good sex - so make sure you do her right:) Should you express or contain your sexual desires? - a moot point, read why. Wanna play the dating game? - ... um... let's see now... The rules with your wingman - if you approach girls together with a friend / wingman, make sure you agree on the rules. Getting started: On confidence - and getting started with approaching girls. Experiment! - don't think twice, don't look back, just have fun!. Casual meetings vs pick-ups - the pros and cons. At a party - a mild alternative to the 3s rule. Just say "Hi" - then continue with one of the two tactics described in the article. Talk to girls - everywhere! How to initiate a conversation - here's your back-up, in case your primary parashoot doesn't open. Talking to her = echoing her - a stripped down version of Trance words and Eliciting values. Fluff talk - the essential skill of talking about nothing, and how to evolve from that. The "don't"s of fluff talk - what to avoid. [d] Reading body language - its like reading people's thoughts, it'll blow you away. Mirroring - the Jedi mind tricks of body-language explained. Kinaesthetics - make touching the girls your second nature, even (and especially!:) if you just met them, they'll love it:) Approaching and making them interested: Where to meet girls - the most popular places for a pick-up. If she seems unapproachable - then maybe everyone thinks so... and she's all alone. General guidelines on approaching - a few pointers and examples to get you started. Demonstrate value and personality - the basic premise of seduction. The importance of a first impression - or relative unimportance, depending on whether you're an AFC or a PUA:) Pace and lead - and demonstrate understanding to increase rapport. Approaches
Gimmicks - palm-reading
Night-clubs and dancing
Group tactics
Neghits
Eliciting values
GM style
Sexual talk
Patterning
Additional patterning skills
The patterns
Long-distance seduction
Now that she's interested: Common signs of interest - to know you're "in":) Building a bridge AFC-style - if you can't do anything, do it at least the AFC way:) If more than one girl is interested in you - don't choose, you might loose:) Reading the signs of a "committed" woman - understand her seemingly contradictory signs, and the door will be open:) Capitalise - there's a girl that has started liking you quite on her own!? Now don't let that window close:) Making a timely exit - instead on lingering on forever, leave her hungry for more. Closing - how to get a girl to give you her number and a kiss:) Asking for a... date? - now that you have her number... what next? Proceeding instead of closing - for why would you want to "close" if things are going smooth? Our World routine - constructing a world for her in which she will feel free to make love to you:) Inviting the girl over to your place - to "check out a book or something...":) If she has second-thoughts - she wants it but can't quite make up her mind, "help" her:) My home is my love-nest - make sure you can be confident about the quality of your retreat. Networking and pivots - if you're not quite interested anymore or she's not quite interested yet. Handling the girls: Be busy - attract girls by being "busy". Suggest competition - keep her on her toes. Put a price on yourself - the more you "cost", the more value she attributes to you. Show a willingness to walk away - don't let her take you for granted. Use her friends - by realising, that "friendship" also means "rivalry". Judge her by her actions, not by her words - or rather, let her actions speak the words. Have and reveal secrets - provide a constant thrill for the woman. Use poetry - women are about feelings; poems are about feelings - and mixing the two gets you dynamite:) 12 poems. If she compliments you - make her feel good for having done that:) Act like its special - and what you have can not be found anywhere else. Paying her a compliment - an AFC trap, unless you do it right. Cook for her and "date" at home - the main dish will be less expensive and the "dessert" more convenient:) When should you call a woman after having sex with her? - don't blow it, she'll be very sensitive and tender about this one. Romantic gifts and things to do - but use these to reward, not to bribe. Managing many relationships at once - best policy is (tailored:) honesty. Troubleshooting: If she asks for YOUR number instead - don't fall for this (relates to Closing). If she still refuses to give you her number - a strategy of covert persistence. If she says "Why do you ask?" - read how to recover (relates to Patterning and Eliciting values). If she asks "Are you trying to seduce me?" - this isn't trouble actually (she likes it:), but you still need to know how to answer. "Have you ever...?" gets busted - what do you do, if she says "No" in response (relates to Patterning). Ejecting - you don't always have to close. Know when to cut your losses. If she cancels a date - she screwed you (and not the way you hoped she would:). Now what? If she doesn't return your phone-calls/e-mails - a zero-tolerance policy. If she shows disrespect for you - you dump her, aka The Returning Fox Theory. The age difference problem - you shouldn't anticipate it, but its good to be prepared. Nothing works with the girl - and you tried all your techniques. But there's an ace up your sleeve:) If she says "Let's just be friends" - looks like you're in trouble, read how to recover. Dealing with rejection - why you should never get rejected and how to cope with it, if you do. But I really want this girl! - read why this is such a self-defeating attitude. The boyfriend problem
Micellaneous: Fun and games - you'll love these:) "The kissing bet", "Osama", "A-Hole + truth or dare". Bad jokes - careful:) "Pants in the air", "Telepathic watch", "Spermogram", "Doctor's appointment", "Voodoo dildo" etc. A game of Crash and Burn - guess it depends on your definition of fun:) But a great experience (and confidence?:) builder. More things to do for fun - useless, but fun:) Top colognes - for getting the girls, of course. Miscellaneous suggestions and observations about seduction - a recap. Articles: The Iranian from hell - do your looks matter? Read this report by Maniac High and decide for yourself:) Eye contact experiment - David Shade finds out, how girls react to eye-contact with a stranger. The pivot theory - NYC explains the benefits of making girls your pivots. Ross comments on www.introme.com - his one-page website / personals ad full of NLP and SS. Falling in love vs being a player - in case you have any feelings of guilt. A female seducer turning straight girls into bi and lesbian - if you're a girl reading "How to Lay Girls", this one's for you:) Article in Rolling Stone - a tour of modern seduction literature, NLP and Speed Seduction. Article in Playboy - the Harvard-educated journalist experiences a paradigm shift. Job Interview patterns - a different perspective on NLP and patterning. 2 patterns. Field reports: The rich and famous setup - but even more accurately the "tired of female attention" setup:) The effectiveness of persistence with a smile - true seduction (choose and seduce:), not a numbers game or easy girls. Svengali's street pick-up - a classic street pick-up using humour, romance, sex-talk and kino with confidence. Svengali's friend's street pick-up - a "neg" of sorts gets the ball rolling:) The original Mr Smooth posts - Maniac High describes the technique of a Japanese PUA. NightShadow's IRC seduction - an example of an image to create good feelings. David Shade's online seduction - this guy is really good:) A log of him and a married woman. David Shade's real-life seduction - and he's not just a computer geek cowering behind his keyboard:) Read and gasp:) Maniac High's report, NYC's comments - important points being discussed. The Orgasmotron - Alex Akselrod plants a post-hypnotic suggestion. | |||||||||||
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